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Twenty-six. Proud single mother. Writer. New Jerseyan. I pretty much blog things for the betterment/total destruction of humanity.


"My response to the “I am not a feminist” internet phenomenon….

First of all, it’s clear you don’t know what feminism is. But I’m not going to explain it to you. You can google it. To quote an old friend, “I’m not the feminist babysitter.”

But here is what I think you should know.

You’re insulting every woman who was forcibly restrained in a jail cell with a feeding tube down her throat for your right to vote, less than 100 years ago.

You’re degrading every woman who has accessed a rape crisis center, which wouldn’t exist without the feminist movement.

You’re undermining every woman who fought to make marital rape a crime (it was legal until 1993).

You’re spitting on the legacy of every woman who fought for women to be allowed to own property (1848). For the abolition of slavery and the rise of the labor union. For the right to divorce. For women to be allowed to have access to birth control (Comstock laws). For middle and upper class women to be allowed to work outside the home (poor women have always worked outside the home). To make domestic violence a crime in the US (It is very much legal in many parts of the world). To make workplace sexual harassment a crime.

In short, you know not what you speak of. You reap the rewards of these women’s sacrifices every day of your life. When you grin with your cutsey sign about how you’re not a feminist, you ignorantly spit on the sacred struggle of the past 200 years. You bite the hand that has fed you freedom, safety, and a voice.

In short, kiss my ass, you ignorant little jerks.”

— Libby Anne (via coachk13)

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The band iwrestledabearonce’s new merch design, “yoncé”. 

White people are so edgy. View high resolution

The band iwrestledabearonce’s new merch design, “yoncé”.

White people are so edgy.


Manaka Fairy Skirt and Tenticle Top.¸¸.•*¨`* ✩

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Manaka Fairy Skirt and Tenticle Top.¸¸.•*¨`* ✩


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I hate comments like this. Blue Ivy is not even 3 years old yet and people are telling her to do her hair. is she suppose to have a weave or straighten it? no. her parents are embracing her natural hair and she looks adorable regardless of how her hair looks. she is a child!!!


Since when the fuck is an Afro not done? Y’all niggas better chill on that child’s hair.


Have to agree on the first comment although I will say simple ponytails and braids are natural styles that they can do to her hair, they don’t have to perm, relax or straighten her hair, when a lot of people say “do her hair” we mean a damn ponytail or a cute braid style. Just because she’s Beyonce don’t mean I’m going to agree with everything she chooses to do (or not do) You don’t see North West hair undone. #JustMyOpinion. #SorryNotSorry

Bye, Felicia.

(Source: nya-kin)







Next level trust.

Love that show so much

Friendship and Relationship goals


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the worst feeling is when one of your friends brings up a kink that you kinda like but then they’re like “IDK WHY PEOPLE LIKE THAT SORT OF THING THAT’S WEIRD” and you just (sweats quietly)

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It sucks when you’re really into someone and they just stop talking to you. Just as if you stopped existing or something.

It’s rough.

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